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One asks: What comes next? The other only asks:
is it right? This is how free differs from the servant.
(Theodor Storm, 1817-1888)
HERE is the radio interview with Lady Syonera von Styx
If you have further interesting questions for Lady Syonera, just write them to:: firstname.lastname@example.org
Why does the Atelier Exposure SM set standards in Saxony?
We have been around for the longest – for 20 years & so we have the most experience, the most complex studio, a house available, which is mine & exclusively ladies who are stylish, truly inclined, autonomous, experienced-just personalities. I also like to be a hostess. My ladies and of course our guests should feel comfortable without time stress and find everything they need. I love the detail & new ideas. So I always find it funny when others often copy us.
Well I found the name “SM Studio” unimaginative at the time. That’s why I took the name “Atelier Exposure”. Now at least half of the SM locations in
Saxony are called “Atelier …”. I had the first community education 15 years ago. Now there are some in the area trying to do it too. Some are trying their chances with clips where I’ve been making films successfully for 20 years. I developed my slave questionnaire about 15 years ago, I had to give a copyright because slaves actually asked me why I was using the questionnaire from the other studio. Amusing! Specials and introductory texts from ladies are almost adopted as is. I designed the open house & less than a month later
it was copied in other studios …. Well, I have to do everything right. Let’s see when everyone publishes their interview. But kidding aside. Don’t you have your own ideas?!
Syonera von Styx, you have chosen an extraordinary name. Does the name refer to the Styx, the river in the underworld of Greek mythology & what do you want to express with this name?
Yes, that’s right. I took Styx because in Hades it is the river that leads from this world to the next. So there is a kind of change taking place. Like in a good session. You can let yourself go & mostly recognize yourself anew, you can relax above all. mentally. In addition, unlike Syonera, it is short, appropriate & memorable. Syonera is a fantasy name made up by me & so only used by me, copy right
Why do you call yourself a “goddess”?
That was what my slaves called me at the very beginning about 20 years ago. Then the name stayed. Now many women call themselves that, some who don’t deserve it either.
Do you think it is a bit too much of a good thing?
I have not called me so; and those who know me can form his own judgment. I know I’m into fetish with wide experience, Aura & Fun at the SM / not in the “industry.” This one can also be seen in my many self-produced or other SM movies / Clips I particapiated in in addition to my two extremes self developed SM and all my great photos
At what age did you notice that you had dominant tendencies and how did they come out?
At the age of 18, after graduating from high school, I completed a physiotherapy training. In order to be self-employed, I wanted to earn something. This is how I introduced myself to a supposedly “serious” escort agency. It quickly became clear that this wasn’t that serious at all. That’s why I wanted to go quickly & not waste my time. The boss looked arrogant, but after a short time when I was in his office, he looked very insecure, unfocused – of course, since he was actually submissive, which was expressed as a foot fetishist -. So he asked me to recosider & then asked if I would be interested in practicing in his SM studio. At first I was a bit confused, but wanted to see it & so I plunged into the bizarre world a short time later. Through my alert mind and my natural disposition, I quickly learned everything about my guests. In retrospect, the best “lesson” I could get. It takes more time and energy and better than learning from practicing women, films & books, that’s how I developed my special style. Little by little, I exposed my inclination, my hidden self. He – the foot fetishist was no longer enough for me, but I let him work for me – by allowing all the money raised by the ladies to be stuck between my toes. This is how I learned & formed my first money slave. Immediately after my apprenticeship I bought my studio equipment & so I was able to live out my inclinations even more & pursue the psychological challenge. A degree in psychology was always planned for my future. However, this was no longer necessary due to the great knowledge gained in the studio.
What are your favorite practices?
That would be too boring for me to always have one or two special practices
to prefer. I enjoy the variety of these & experiencing them with a wide variety of people. In the white and black areas, I do almost everything.
But I would not play crushing games e.g. because simply I don’t like them. The only thing that matters to me, whether involved or not, is to meet
a guest with a natural disposition who can let go. Role playing games are great challenges, there I can put myself in almost any dominant role
perfectly. Just this much, I especially like the gloomy Middle Ages, which is why my vaulted cellars in Dresden look so authentic.
What are your taboos
Sessions with minors / animals / people who appear involuntarily / where long-term damage can occur & see above Embracing games & non- predisposed people.
You take beautiful, varied photos. Where do the ideas & talent come from?
From 15 I was modeling professionally. My pronounced Exobithionismus & my imagination coupled with my natural invests awareness let me appear in photos or movies over and over again. I enjoy the versatility and that falls to me fortunately easy.
Do you develop the scripts for your films? Where are these rotated? Who styles you How do the actors get there? How is a film made & how many new films have you produced?
Yes, I usually create the scripts myself. Sometimes I get suggested good ideas or I take spontaneous, witty ideas from my sessions. I mostly shoot in Dresden, because that’s where I have my large, versatile home. Sometimes I shoot in a dungeon, sometimes in a real pigsty, or in a cellar vault. Then of course I also use my fully equipped studio and the beautiful landscape
around Dresden for outdoor shots. The styling is completely in my hands, as is my and slave’s and choice of settings. I value my tried and tested actors and slaves, but many could also apply in writing to me. It was interesting to work with completely new people right in front of the camera. we start, by me ordering and sharing the script to all the slaves that can be join to be ready, then I initiate in more detail the beginning of a meeting, to elbaorate more on the script that was sent before. Then I set the set ups & in this order. Usually 2 days are required per film. After the chat & written
formalities, the slaves are prepared according to their inclinations and experince/ tolarnce. I usually shoot each scene once after very rough instruction. So everyone knows what it’s about & it leaves
room very authentic. Nothing would be worse for me than if everyone had to memorize a stiff text. The success proves me right. My aim per movie is to stage at least at 3 different locations & “costume” changes per film.
In addition to my own productions “Abricht1”, “Friss”, “The cruel judge”, “Center of Power”, “Hell”, “The Revenge of the Goddess” & “A Day at SvS”, “Broken & Knechtet” & “Burning Inferno ”, I shot about 30 films in total with 5 other production companies as the leading actress. I also produced a lot of educational sequences (see my club: www.real-syonera.com ). Further films are being planned.
You have two extraordinary SM shows. How did this come about?
The first one has existed for about 15 years. A friend has a club and approached me with a request to design a show. This happened on my
part & continued to develop. The shows are each 25 minutes with a wide variety of music & increases from soft & somewhat erotic when I treat the maid with real hardness usually this is slave Number 7. Although I manage everything, we are a well-rehearsed team & I enjoy that during the
stage show. The 2nd show was created by a request from a major motorcycle event about 5 years ago. It requires a lot more equipment. So at
the beginning I act as a butcher with flex for flying sparks on the electr. Chair open, a toilet bowl, fire sword, wheelchair, buck for anal games, etc. with champagne bottle etc. Furthermore, fire needles slide through the skin & a NS award is awaited. It definitely won’t get boring. You can see a
compilation of both shows on my website www.die-sm-show.de.
Your website says: “There is still classic dominance here.” Are there fewer and fewer classic dominatrixes in Germany?
Unfortunately yes. At the beginning, when I started at 18, it was normal. As a dominatrix you didn’t have to mention the fact that you don’t offer French, topless etc. with new guests. Now some offer it all. Many women from the normal trade & “housewives” offer Fetish / SM without inclination
or knowledge. So everything is mixed up. Those can be the many black sheeps, the result this no real passion and drive for business, they would do everything for money, regardless of whether the guest is mentally or physically harmed. Sad. Many of the veterans from back then have certainly disappeared because of this.
The newspaper “DIE WELT” published an article about you on June 18, 2013. There you say that the main thing is to “bring the guests to their
psychological limits. That makes up 99 percent of the game. The rest is the pain that creates pleasure in masochists. ”Does every guest really want to be pushed to their limits?
With me yes pushing the limit is the core, limits vary, and whether it’s 80% or 99% push it should occur, otherwise you can go to the brothel. Only
good dominatrixes who understand the guests / slaves, get involved with them & have the true tendency to dominance / sadism can do that. And that’s nice to cross / cross new paths / borders.
And how do you know that he is at his limit?
You can’t teach / describe that to anyone. You can feel that over the years if you are really inclined. Nothing is more unsatisfactory for a guest than when he is more experienced than his “master” – he has to tell her where and how. So he can’t let himself go either. Of course, however, you shouldn’t be excessive. If you go too far. Game over. But that’s the nice thing about having managed to reach the golden mean. This creates trust, a desire for higher paths. This is how a development takes place. Sometimes I chat with
my long-term guests,he usually wonders how he first refused NS & after 18 years, now he gladly accepts KV from me. That is development & real
What kicks you in playing with psychological limits?
The trust that is needed in me & the power that I then have over this person & I know that I could, but will never use it, the psychological knowledge of what one draws from it over the years, the respect between the active and the passive. In addition to inclination and anonymity, these 6 pillars are the most important things in SM.
You offer chastity and recommend the CB 6000. I can understand that, my slave also wears the CB 6000. Why is this model the best choice for you?
I’ve only had positive experiences with it. It is not indestructible, but hygienic, safe, transparent, rounded & above all else. individually adjustable.
What was the longest period of chastity that a slave had to endure with you?
My bondsman # 3. He is very extreme, what you can see in my films as “hell”. He has been locked away for about 480 days. I think 666 is a great
number. He will make it.
Which slave do you prefer?
Since everyone is very different, you can’t say that. But No. 7 has been the most loyal to me for about 19 years, but also the extreme No. 3 or No. 10.
These are house slaves / serfs. There are also many studio guests & TV’s who bring me a lot of fun & are loyal. The important thing is that loyalty, fidelity, & reliability.
The well trained and obedient slave or the slave who has yet to be subjugated and still defends himself?
Hardly anyone has a slave who can never be trained again. Is that so appealing? Everyone needs to be educated over and over again. And no
matter if it is harder or softer. It is fun, but training an arrogant guy who doesn’t know me yet, to show him the direction / to get him off his high
horsehorse, is a special pleasure for me ….
What is one of the beautiful sides of your job for you and what is the less beautiful side?
Job? More of a calling. It is nice to accompany people / slaves over the years / to be a person of trust and respect, to experience SM careers, to get to know a wide variety of people, to be able to “let off steam” in a wide variety of areas. To allow oneself the luxury of freedom with the tribute of the guests to say what one is. If I were to do this as a hobby, like most people, I would probably have to remain silent or lie when asked about wishes /
hobbies / inclinations. But that is not my nature at all. Most beautiful are also my great teams in Dresden & Zurich. They are all seasoned women
with knowledge and personality. So the guests have something for every taste, but always great. Bad? Of course, there are always weirdos in the
field who have no inclinations, just want to have a say, don’t take it seriously. Or really perverts / sick people. But they are very rare & I can see them within limits with my knowledge, courage & self-confidence. Just a bps. I had a stalker case once. He thought my interest in his affection (as with any guest) was affection. He fell in love & when I cleared this up, love turned to hate in this manic depressive person. For years he chased me, slipped verbally again and again, some property damage followed
& in the end we found ourselves in court. Since the “poor & sick” man was not punishable, he did not draw any major reprisals from it. But it was quiet from then on. What disappointed me, however, was the judiciary, how it deals with such cases – allegedly the hands are tied, my abused trust & the knowledge that it can happen again and again. Because you don’t recognize these sick people immediately. Another bad thing is perhaps the stupidity of some people in society who, without background knowledge, declare everything in SM to be the work of the devil. But that also has its good points. I don’t have to surround myself with this stupidity. But I always welcome people who want to know & don’t know it.
If you look back on your early days: How has the industry changed during this time? Do you notice something special?
Well as already described above. The mixture of normal sex & SM, black sheep & the oversupply as a result, I see that as negative. The PR, offers,
possibilities, studios that are becoming more and more professional and diverse are positive. I travel a lot, do my shows at trade fairs, have my small
events (community education), now produce my diverse films (from performance, direction, editing, to the press shop itself), created women’s and men’s perfumes for my atelier Exposure, as well as 2 different ones Stimulation balms. Now there are also merchandising products such as baseball caps, mugs, key rings from Atelier Exposure Dresden & Petit Chateau near Zurich (my new 2nd small private studio). Of course without phone, mail or www. .Why? So that you wear it, you know what it is, remember it nicely, but nobody knows what it is. This is the most important thing – anonymity is preserved.
You have created your own perfume for men and women. How did that happen?
By a regular. He is also self-employed & developed it for his shop. I thought that was a great idea (the labels on the bottles are also anonymous). So,
derived from Syonera, “SYONÈ” for men & “NERA” for women was created. I put it together from various fragrances & tested it on a wide variety of
people for a long time until it was distinctive but not intrusive. Free fragrance samples can be obtained from us. A fresh, woody note was created.
You give your slaves numbers.
… not everyone, only those who are worth it. Or where it fits into the session / relationship